The Right Time to Fall in Love

Lola Nidora says, "Huwag magmadali. Ang lahat ng bagay ay nasa tamang panahon." 
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THE ALDUB Phenomenon has struck the country not only with entertainment but also with life lessons. One of these lessons is about Lola Nidora’s “tamang panahon” or “the right time.” But when is really the right time to fall in love? Here are some of the moments that will help you determine when the right time on falling in love is.

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When you learn to love yourself

You don’t fall in love with someone just because you want them to make you feel beautiful or to remind you how amazing you are. It all starts from within. Turn down those self-pity or self-deprecation moments because if you don’t love yourself, how on earth can you love somebody else?

     

When you are contented

Feeling contented means being happy of what you have: physically, financially and mentally. You need to feel that you are enough to make someone fall in love with you because if you don’t, you’ll just end up feeling insecure of others while you are in a relationship.

When the past is past

If you have been in a relationship before, you need to be ready to fall in love again without thinking about your ex or hoping that you’ll be back together. Flip the next page and start a new chapter!

When your dreams are clear

You should dream for yourself before falling in love. You should have a clear mindset of what you want to pursue in life, so as you can share it to your future behalf and maybe, he/she will support you. Remember, it is not always about him/her; it is also about you.

When you didn’t  desperately search for it

If you go looking for love you won’t see the right thing about it because when you look for it, you don’t see the possibilities ahead of you. When you look for it you have desperation to fall in love that can make you stay with the person who isn’t enough for you. It all takes a little patience because as they say, “Good things come from those who wait” – don’t you think?


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        Falling in love comes in its own time. It may just hit you when you least expect it. But one thing is for sure, you don’t need to fall in love just for the sake of falling; you can have it just as you need or want it – on the right time.

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